Welcome to our glossary! We believe BDSM is customizable. There's no one size fits all for relationships, sex, or kink. Here you can explore, share, and learn about the many ways these things are practiced.

Welcome to our glossary! We believe BDSM is customizable. There's no one size fits all for relationships, sex, or kink. Here you can explore, share, and learn about the many ways these things are practiced.

Our Definition

a dominant who enjoys and/or prefers to play with bratty submissives; a dominant who enjoys punishing misbehavior.

Common Practices & Experiences 

Everyone is different! You'll see this repeated throughout our website and glossary. Common practices and experiences for brat tamers include, but certainly aren't limited to:
  • Communicating with partners and prospective scene partners about the type of bratting that is preferred, as well as about boundaries and limitations.
  • Involving some degree of role-play in scenes.
  • Engaging with “funishment” 
  • Preferring play that involves the trappings of a fight. 
  • “Conqueror” fantasies 
Steve likes when his partner “misbehaves” in-scene and enjoys doling out funishment. 
Harlo feels more dominant in-scene when his partner puts up a fight. 

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